Romans 1 - Sexual Confusion & How We Got Here
From Confusion to Creation: Understanding the Roots of the Sexual Revolution
In less than a generation, Western society has undergone a metaphysical shift so profound that statements once considered incoherent are now treated as foundational truths. The assertion “I am a woman trapped in a man’s body” has transitioned from a perceived logical impossibility to a social dogma. To question this premise is often framed not as a philosophical disagreement, but as a moral failing or a manifestation of an irrational phobia. This cultural evolution is not merely the result of academic queer theory or postmodern philosophy filtering down from universities; it represents a fundamental change in how the average person understands the connection between the mind, the body, and the concept of the self.
This shift has tangible, often tragic, consequences. Public institutions now frequently advocate for medical interventions that suppress puberty or remove healthy organs in adolescents, categorizing these actions as “affirming care.” To understand how society reached this point, one must look beyond the surface-level debates and examine the underlying shifts in worldview. The current state of sexual confusion is the result of moving away from traditional, biblically-rooted assumptions toward a post-Christian framework that prioritizes internal intuition over biological and divine reality.
The Philosophy of Expressive Individualism
At the heart of the modern sexual revolution is a mindset known as expressive individualism. This philosophy suggests that the purpose of life is to discover one’s deepest internal impulses, articulate them to the world, and forge an identity based on those feelings. In this framework, fulfillment is found by asserting one’s inner self against any external constraints—whether those come from family, tradition, or religious authority. The capacity for individuals to define the terms of their own existence is increasingly equated with liberty itself.
This perspective was notably articulated in legal theory through the concept that at the heart of liberty is the right to define one’s own concept of existence, meaning, and the mystery of human life. When this becomes the primary lens for human identity, the self becomes the ultimate authority. However, the Christian tradition offers a starkly different view: that identity is not self-determined but God-determined. If humanity is the product of a Creator, then that Creator’s design provides the objective meaning and purpose for human life. To ignore this design is to pursue a path that ultimately leads to disorder rather than flourishing.
Psalms 100:3 (NASB)
Know that the LORD Himself is God; It is He who has made us, and not we ourselves; [We are] His people and the sheep of His pasture.
The Purpose of Sexuality: Pleasure or Design
A secondary shift has occurred in the understanding of human sexuality. The secular speculation posits that sex is primarily a recreational activity intended for personal pleasure. In this view, any sexual expression is considered valid as long as there is consent. Because expressive individualism places sexual feelings at the core of identity, the denial of sexual fulfillment is viewed as a repressive act that harms the individual. This has led to a “prolonged adolescence” in the West, where individuals delay the responsibilities of adulthood and marriage while engaging in a decade or more of transient sexual relationships.
In contrast, the biblical perspective suggests that sexuality is a gift with specific, divinely ordained purposes. While pleasure is a component of this design, it is not an end in itself. Scripture outlines four primary purposes for the sexual bond: the consummation of a marriage covenant, the procreation of image-bearers, the ongoing expression of marital love, and the provision of pleasure within the safety of that union. When sexuality is detached from these purposes, it fails to lead to the durable, life-giving unions for which it was intended.
Genesis 1:26 (NASB)
Then God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.’
Marriage as a Universal Institution
The modern secular view treats marriage as a cultural construct—a human invention that can be redefined to accommodate the evolving feelings of the participants. If marriage has no inherent or objective meaning, it can be reshaped to fit any combination of individuals or any duration of time. Under expressive individualism, when a marriage vow conflicts with a person’s evolving sexual or emotional feelings, the vow is expected to give way to the internal impulse.
The biblical witness, however, presents marriage as a universal institution established by God at creation. When addressing issues of sexual ethics, the biblical authors do not point to the cultural failures or polygamous practices seen throughout history; instead, they point back to the original union of the first man and woman. This pre-fall model serves as the norm for all human sexuality. Marriage is defined as a one-man, one-woman covenant that reflects the Creator’s intent for human companionship and social stability.
Matthew 19:4-6 (NASB)
And He answered and said, ’Have you not read that He who created [them] from the beginning MADE THEM MALE AND FEMALE, and said, ’FOR THIS REASON A MAN SHALL LEAVE HIS FATHER AND MOTHER AND BE JOINED TO HIS WIFE, AND THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH ’? ‘So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.’
Gender as Revealed Reality
Perhaps the most contentious area of modern confusion concerns gender. The prevailing secular view is that gender is “assigned” at birth but is actually a subjective internal identity that may contradict biological sex. This ideology prioritizes psychological perception over bodily reality. It suggests that if the mind and body are in conflict, the body must be altered—sometimes through destructive medical means—to match the mind’s intuition.
This perspective stands in direct opposition to a biblical anthropology that views the body as a good and essential part of human identity. Biological sex is a bodily reality organized for reproduction, and gender is the social manifestation of that biological sex. In a fallen world, individuals may indeed experience deep distress and conflict between their self-perception and their physical bodies. However, the path to wholeness is not found in the destruction of healthy organs, but in the alignment of the mind with the reality of the body as God created it. Compassion for those suffering from gender dysphoria involves leading them toward a resolution that honors their biological design rather than rejecting it.
Psalms 19:7-9 (NASB)
The law of the LORD is perfect, restoring the soul; The testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple. The precepts of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart; The commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes. The fear of the LORD is clean, enduring forever; The judgments of the LORD are true; they are righteous altogether.
Conclusion: Seeking Wholeness in the Creator
The current cultural moment is characterized by a “sowing to the wind” that has resulted in a “reaping of the whirlwind.” By embracing expressive individualism, society has traded the stable foundation of the Creator’s design for the shifting sands of internal feelings. This has not led to the promised liberation, but to increased anxiety, confusion, and the fragmentation of the most basic human institutions.
True human flourishing is found not in the assertion of the self, but in submission to the God who made us. The path forward requires a rejection of the speculation that identity is self-forged and a return to the truth that humanity belongs to God. In Him, there is a design that leads to life, a grace that meets the broken in their confusion, and a hope that transcends the limitations of the modern self.
2 Corinthians 10:4-5 (NASB)
for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but divinely powerful for the destruction of fortresses. [We are] destroying speculations and every lofty thing raised up against the knowledge of God, and [we are] taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ,